“You’ve been wronged, but does it make it right?” According to
Frank Bruni: In the case of certain grievances, we're basically saying, "I know what's right. I know the truth and how dare you disagree with me?” Every party, sex, race, sexual orientation or class seems to say: “They feel cheated. They feel disrespected. They’re peeved unless they’re outright furious.” The aggrieved on all sides “have lost — or lost interest in — the ability to see beyond their slights to a common good in which they don’t get all that they want. Grown-ups are supposed to be able to compromise. “If we can’t relate to people who aren’t just like us,” Bruni pleads, “if empathy is an illusion and attempts to muster it are insults, if we’re a hodgepodge of rival grievances rather than a team of unified aspirations, how can we prosper and how can we endure?” It’s time to consider what we can do together, find common ground, learn to listen, and with humility, not take ourselves so seriously.